Friends of the Children, New York

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One person, over time can turn a life around.Friend and child.

Program

Program Description

Through an extensive selection process, we seek out the children that are most vulnerable to school failure, abuse, neglect, juvenile delinquency, gang and drug involvement, and teen pregnancy. Friends NY gender matches 8 children with one carefully screened, stable, paid professional mentor, called a Friend. Friends spend 2 to 3 hours with each child at least twice a week, in and outside of the school setting.

Friends of the Children NY is unique because we:

  • Employ carefully screened, full-time, paid professional mentors
  • Match each Friend with 8 children
  • Provide our mentors with continuous support and training
  • Maintain high retention rates among both staff and children
  • Establish and maintain working relationships with schools and families
  • Select severely at-risk children through an intensive 6-week assessment process
  • Intervene early at ages 5-7 and continue through high school graduation
  • Commit to a long-term unconditional relationship with each child
  • Spend extensive time in a one-on-one nurturing role modeling relationship

Long-Term Outcomes

We have the following Long-Term Outcomes for each of our children:

  • Graduate from high school with a plan for the future
  • Avoid involvement in the criminal justice system
  • Avoid teenage parenthood

Rave Reviews

Since we began in 2001 we have continually collected data, and evidence in school and at home indicates that participation in the Friends NY program is having a positive impact in the lives of our children. Our second Third-party evaluation covering the first five years shows that Friends NY is:

"an invaluable presence in the lives of the children and families that they serve. Children report doing better in school since having a Friend, and teacher ratings of student progress, particularly in the area of attendance support this claim."

Teachers tell us student behavior also improved. As one teacher said:

"children felt they didn´t want to disappoint their Friend so they behaved better. This change in behavior was not only visible in the students, but it also improved the overall environment of their classrooms."

Parents appreciate Friends´ impact, as exemplified by one parent telling our evaluator:

"For him to have a person who gives him the attention he´s looking for, it´s great. It´s like they have someone special just for them, and they get to share a lot with them. They become part of your family because they´re involved with a great deal of things with the child."

What progress has been made?

Social and Emotional Development

Making Good Choices

School Success

Download a PDF version of the complete Friends NY 2003 Evaluation.

Download a PDF version of the complete Friends NY 2006 Evaluation.